twenty one years.
"the truth; without holding back"

16th April 2014

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in online forum posts for classes: saying you “agree” with someone is not holding a conversation you need to engage w the material ppl and connect what we’re learning back to you otherwise wtf are we doing. just taking up long-ass posts saying we agree — i mean, that’s cool if u do, but connect it back to you and your thinking, i want to LEARN FROM ALL OF YOU and i can’t do that if you’re not ENGAGING W THE MATERIAL.

Tagged: collegefrustrationonline forums

16th April 2014

Quote reblogged from My Crime is Discomfort, My Mind Ill at Ease with 3,720 notes

We always see our worst selves. Our most vulnerable selves. We need someone else to get close enough to tell us we’re wrong. Someone we trust.
— David Levithan  (via despite-repute)

Tagged: david levithanmm

Source: psych-facts

16th April 2014

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thingsyouwishyousaid:

Damnn.

thingsyouwishyousaid:

Damnn.

Tagged: mm

Source: vilicity

11th April 2014

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i have been thinking a lot about conforming vs. nonconforming a lot recently. i feel like it’s almost impossible to be completely nonconforming, otherwise you would find little common ground with most ppl because your views differ so much from theirs. at the same time though, i’d rather be true to my thinking and ideas then succumb to the faults of society. does this make sense?? i just don’t want to contribute more to its being fucked up and if that means taking a stand against not partaking in “small talk” or idk talking about things i think are irrelevant to the human experience, then yea i will do that. i cringe to think that i overheard a conversation about a girl finding out she was wearing the same thing as another girl at a party and how horrific it was…wut. the fuck.

who would you be if gender wasn’t a thing? i can’t help but think part of this conforming aspect to society is committing to aspects of gender that i just don’t want to partake in. the girls at my college are way into their looks — i rarely put on makeup, and when i do it’s for a nice occasion and it’s usually just eyeliner…my hair is short and poofy and i don’t care to regulate it every day. why does this have to be such a concern w girls and women nowadays?

we could be thinking about SO MANY OTHER THINGS if we weren’t abiding by gender roles and thinking about things we think we should be thinking about but don’t question we should be thinking about because we are too far into conformity to realize that we’re doing it. or, that’s just how i see this shit.

i can’t express how frustrated i am by society, i think about this so very much. prob more than i should. but seriously, i want to be having good conversations about life and who we are as PEOPLE. not as girls or boys or women or men. PEOPLE. 

8th April 2014

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i hate to say this but sometimes it feels like my family will drive me to drink. every time i go visit, i get so so unhappy realizing how shitty the dynamics still are and how they’ve done nothing to fix it. and i feel like i’m finally able to redefine home for myself, and neither of them are able to do that right now. it’s like they’re stuck in time and i’m time travelling to a place i don’t want to keep going back to.i can’t help but want to have some beer or some THING that will dull their reality to me. it hurts too much to see it sometimes

3rd April 2014

Photoset reblogged from I Don't go to Sleep to Dream. with 23,433 notes

Tagged: lol

Source: deanpeltonscloset

2nd April 2014

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Remember me. Try your best.

Remember me. Try your best.

Tagged: mmthat line has new meaning for me now

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2nd April 2014

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imperiumwife:

howimetneilpatrickharris:

pepino-amoroso:

Neil and Cobie’s reaction to the final episode. (x)

#youcansethepainintheireyes
#thosetwolovedswarkles

notice neil not saying no in any way… he knew we’d fucking hate it

I love Neil even more now.

Tagged: lol

Source: pepino-amoroso

31st March 2014

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the himym finale has got me thinking about mortality, and how life can be fucked up sometimes, but it’s too short to not go after love. my heart is aching in the worst way

Tagged: himymstill disagree w the endingbut thats what i keep coming back to

28th March 2014

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it makes me nervous how you comb longing into a bad temper.